I always express my feelings through other peoples music. I cant seem to say what im feeling right in my own words, but i can usually find a song that expresses it close to perfect. My husband passed away 24 days ago and I have been a total wreck. Most days I just want to end mine and go be with him. Today, I was listening to the newer staind album and a song that ive never heard before jumped out at me and made me peaceful for the first time in a month. #10 Something to Remind You. We used to listen to music together all the time and both considered Staind our favorite band. The song sound to me like something he would say if he could. I put my --- down and cried.