What would you do .... if it was you
Hey guys
i have a question to everybody in here How many times have been lied to, not by anyone but by the closest people in your life and yet you kept on seeing them laughing with them and pretended like nothing is ever wrong?
Well, this is what happened to me and recognizing the lies all the time and never said anything because I care about these people.
I am "people pleaser" and I can't say something because I'm afraid that I might hurt them and they wouldn't speak to me anymore, and I can't face the fact to that I might become a social outcast not by anyone BUT the people I CARE ABOUT
SO.... What would you do .... If it was you????
i have a question to everybody in here How many times have been lied to, not by anyone but by the closest people in your life and yet you kept on seeing them laughing with them and pretended like nothing is ever wrong?
Well, this is what happened to me and recognizing the lies all the time and never said anything because I care about these people.
I am "people pleaser" and I can't say something because I'm afraid that I might hurt them and they wouldn't speak to me anymore, and I can't face the fact to that I might become a social outcast not by anyone BUT the people I CARE ABOUT
SO.... What would you do .... If it was you????
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Permalink Reply by Diana Rixhards on -
Well, i am the same way buddy.. But i learned that you have to speak up for your self. If you never say a word then it will be like this for ever and If you start to suffer and not being happy then you have to say something, cause obviesly that person doenst care if you get hurt by their actions and lies so why should you stay in the dark and not be happy?? Speak up for your self and you might get the respect that you deserve.
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Permalink Reply by spidermonkey on -
sometimes a quiet knowing smile is all you'll ever need. ..
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Permalink Reply by Rammi Alqannas on -
I did give the smile but these days it seems it never enough.
I think that people don't give a damn and yet I could never say a damn thing because I care for them and believe it or not but I have two mottoes "Life is way too short to harbour a grudge" and "Cherish the people you love"
spidermonkey said:sometimes a quiet knowing smile is all you'll ever need. ..
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