Breakups.

This the the only website that I can think of that fits my problem. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, 3 weeks ago over something so stupid and yet really serious. Oxymoron, I know. Makes no sense. But since then, I have been switching on her and myself, saying that I want her back, then a day later I don't. I just love this girl so much, and I have been hurting more than I have ever hurt before. I have dreams that everything is fine between us and then I wake up and she's not there next to me. I want to get over her but I keep thinking that I can't. I feel that I have just been crushed. I just don't know what the hell will make me feel better about this. And just the other night we agreed to be friends and just take our time and we aren't the right ones for each other right now. We want to be together but there are so mnay things getting in the way. School, family, friends, etc. I just don't know what to do and I just want to get my mind clear of everything.

Tags: Breakups, boyfriend, girlfriend, problems, relationships

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Permalink Reply by Justin Townsend on September 12, 2009 at 3:34am

Shit that she did. Lies, mostly.

Shannon said:

What happened? Did she do something or did you? I think if it is meant to be it will be. 3 weeks isnt very long, even though it seems like forever. Just see what happens.

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Permalink Reply by LEFTYJLAJ on September 12, 2009 at 4:49pm

Justin Townsend said:

Worst part of it all, I had White Castle before it all happened...

NOT cool bro. NOT cool.

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Permalink Reply by Kieron on September 13, 2009 at 4:50am

dude, i know how your feeling right now. I split up from my gf of 4 years at the end of june.....id be lying if i said it had sorted itself out. It was my own fault, all i could see at the time was all the bad stuff that had happened, like a dark cloud had covered my eyes from seeing all the good in our relationship. 2 Months on, im in a worse place than ive ever been, shes been with a couple of other people,, me on the other hand cant get over it, and now all i can think of are the good times, and wish i could have them back. But, as i say, its my own fault, and ive got to deal with the conciquences. She wont have me back, as i did, and said some stupid things when we broke up, and the trust is gone. All id say is, take a step back, shut her, and everyone out for a bit, and just spend some time to yourself. Make up your mind and decide exactly what you want....and if you decide you want her, go get her before its too late. Dont fuck things up like i have. Good luck