Breakups.
This the the only website that I can think of that fits my problem. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, 3 weeks ago over something so stupid and yet really serious. Oxymoron, I know. Makes no sense. But since then, I have been switching on her and myself, saying that I want her back, then a day later I don't. I just love this girl so much, and I have been hurting more than I have ever hurt before. I have dreams that everything is fine between us and then I wake up and she's not there next to me. I want to get over her but I keep thinking that I can't. I feel that I have just been crushed. I just don't know what the hell will make me feel better about this. And just the other night we agreed to be friends and just take our time and we aren't the right ones for each other right now. We want to be together but there are so mnay things getting in the way. School, family, friends, etc. I just don't know what to do and I just want to get my mind clear of everything.
Tags: Breakups, boyfriend, girlfriend, problems, relationships
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Permalink Reply by Jana on
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Okay was it you who broke up with her, her with you or was it a mutual thing? If it was you who broke up with her, then that was your own doing..if you really want back with her go talk to her, tell her you wanted to clear your head. If you're going to be in a relationship while in school of course you will have school, family and friends get in the way sometimes, even out of school you will have family and friends and your job get in the way sometimes, its just how life is. I would love to be with my boyfriend 24/7 but I cant because we are both in school and both have jobs (though his is a regular part time job and mine is just seasonal)
Sorry if this made no sense, I hope you get everything figured out. If you go talk to her and she agrees/wants to be back with you then obviously you two should be together.
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Permalink Reply by Shannon on -
What happened? Did she do something or did you? I think if it is meant to be it will be. 3 weeks isnt very long, even though it seems like forever. Just see what happens.
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Permalink Reply by RumpleTeaser on -
im sorry man. Hope it all works out in the end
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Permalink Reply by sharknamedpeppy on -
??? For a minute, I thought it was some news about Staind breaking up.
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Permalink Reply by T on -
haha...me too pep....they say that breaking up is hard to do....that song's a direct reflection of how old i am....sheesh...
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Permalink Reply by SteFanie on -
i'm not quite sure why you think this website fits your problem but you may also wanna try drphil.com. not trying to be harsh, simply stating the obvious. breakups are tough, especially the ones you have when you actually fall in love with the person. it's not healthy for you to keep going back and forth in your mind. It's not healthy for her either the way you are going back and forth with what you want. either your all in or your not. you either jump on in feet first or walk away. yes it can be hard but you just step up and make a choice. peace. \m/
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Permalink Reply by Ann Marie Harrison on -
Hmmm, sorry to hear of your breakup. I wonder why you chose this site....maybe you are listening to some of STAIND's stuff. Probably won't clear your mind of everything...maybe you should just clear up the stuff thats getting in the way? Hopefully time will make you feel better than right now. Be happy, take care.
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Permalink Reply by Justin Townsend on
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I mean. I don't mean to sound like a bitch about all of this. This was just my first REAL relationship and I usually try and get other people's opinions on the situation. And screw Dr. Phil. Staind helped me through some rough times in my life and I just thought that doing it on their website here might help me out a bit. Hell, who knows. She might be interested in someone else by now. And I know 3 weeks isn't a long time, but to be honest, it feels like it happened a year ago.. Worst part of it all, I had White Castle before it all happened..
SteFanie said:i'm not quite sure why you think this website fits your problem but you may also wanna try drphil.com. not trying to be harsh, simply stating the obvious. breakups are tough, especially the ones you have when you actually fall in love with the person. it's not healthy for you to keep going back and forth in your mind. It's not healthy for her either the way you are going back and forth with what you want. either your all in or your not. you either jump on in feet first or walk away. yes it can be hard but you just step up and make a choice. peace. \m/
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Eh. It's a lot of things that are in the way. Mainly a guy. An asshole, to be exact. Manipulation is something that is controlling her right now and I feel that I need to have her figure the shit out on her own.
Ann Marie Harrison said:Hmmm, sorry to hear of your breakup. I wonder why you chose this site....maybe you are listening to some of STAIND's stuff. Probably won't clear your mind of everything...maybe you should just clear up the stuff thats getting in the way? Hopefully time will make you feel better than right now. Be happy, take care.
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Message you her number... -_-
Xdog said:Dude, you did the right thing.
Can you pm me her #? Kthxbye.
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